07.10.2010
Have you heard of this?
~~~WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW CANNOT HURT YOU~~~ or ~~~不知者无罪~~~
I couldn’t agree more. It holds true in 2 situations:
a) U didn’t realize that someone was angry with you. Definitely bliss as u can still go about minding your own business while the other person risked having stroke. I sometimes fall into this category. I never knew when I made a mistake and sometimes I really don’t know where have I done wrong.
Definitely bliss especially if you are irking someone unintentionally but be careful, it might end up in an ugly brawl. Definitely not bliss for the angry person. 生气别人是等于惩罚自己. So the next time u wanna be angry with someone, try reviewing yourself whether it’s worthwhile to be so angry over a trivial matter. 开心不是因为烦恼少而是因为计较少. Cool down and be less calculative.
b) U are the victim. U didn’t do anything but people just can’t help talking about u without adding in some salt and vinegar into their conversation. I would rather be in the dark than to know what was being discussed behind my back. Sometimes, the words hurt and for an impulsive young lady like me, it felt like a sharp knife slicing through my heart the instant I heard it. But thank God I recover quite fast. The longest it take me to ignore the ‘thing’ would be 1-2 days time. Usually after I wake up, I will feel different already. God knows why they would do that. I am used to it anyway.
Anyway, we can’t always live in ignorance, can’t we? Sometimes need to fight back, but only after we had sharpened our fangs and claws. Miao!
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